Today marks the 15th anniversary of Jim Valvano’s death. A few heavy moments from 1993 still weigh heavily in my mind.

For instance, Valvano’s final game announcing (for ABC) in the Dean Dome came in March when #1 UNC hosted Duke. Brian Reese had just made the cover of Sports Illustrated and the Heels, on their way to a National Championship, handled Duke easily that Saturday afternoon. A neighbor scored 4 seats two rows behind the UNC bench for us. While they painted their chests and faces, I took my “Don’t Give Up Don’t Ever Give Up” bumper sticker, hoping to attract the sights of Jimmy V, who sat across the court, 50 feet away. Valvano didn’t seem to notice me, but Phil Ford did, and gave me a thumbs up. Afterward, the thousands of people who descended toward Valvano’s seat, as well as the ovation he received when leaving the court, were both tearjerkers.

Even heavier was Valvano’s final speech at NCSU (YouTube). He spoke in Reynolds Coliseum to a standing room only house. Without a dry eye in the house, Valvano preached his message of optimism and perseverance. Laettner took it to heart and was unstoppable that afternoon, but the State fans knew they had witnessed a far greater display before the game.

Then there was the funeral. (Oakwood Cemetary site) Many of ESPN’s people from both sides of the camera, and numerous big names in basketball were on hand to say goodbye to a good friend with a big heart. To this day no moment stands as gut wrenching as the moment that one of Bo Roberts’ (Triangle Area YMCA) sons, a friend of Valvano’s youngest daughter, placed a bouquet of flowers on Valvano’s casket. Even the always-bubbly Dick Vitale was in shambles; to the point of not being able to be a pallbearer.

Valvano is long gone, but not forgotten. Somewhere in heaven, he is telling a tale and making friends (but only when my father takes a break:) ) His simple, uplifting message has never given up.